The other day, I posted about singing up front at a service for the first time in over a year. A dear friend commented that I was a woman of many talents.
Which was very sweet, but it got me thinking... Aren't we all women of many talents?
Mine just might be more "on stage" than yours. Mine are the kind you can do at your school's talent show.
But let me tell you girls, you have a heck of a lot of talents I wish (wish wish wish) I could possess.
My friends Stacy, Meredith and Deanna have awesome organization skills. I've said if they are Type A, then I am Type Z. They can run organizations, naturally lead, have great business sense, and manage time like its nothing. In fact, they are actually on time to things. (To me, that's right up there with having magical powers.)
My mom is crazy-skilled at home-keeping, time management and hostessing. You will never want for food at her house. (Yet at mine, we are out of milk, bread, cream --and therefore by default, coffee -- cereal, oatmeal, apples and peanut butter right now. Not to mention that we have piles of laundry all over over our living room, a phenomena I don't ever recall seeing in my childhood.) I think my kids will be eating a stick of butter each for breakfast in the morning. (Just kidding... I think.)
My friend Jessica is empathetic, compassionate, soft-spoken and loving. She reminds me of the verse somewhere in the Bible that says, in reference to her kids, "they will arise and call her blessed."
My friend Jeni is a rockstar at getting stuff done. My friends Grace and Emily so impress me with their discipline in running. My friend Melissa loves her kids like no one's business. Kristin will do anything for you, and is one of the most generous and giving people I know. Jeanne is super smart and gives great advice, and always shows that she listens and cares. Marilyn shows so much grace, kindness and strength of character.
My sister Sarah is gorgeous, is the best hostess I know, is a fabulous cook, bakes with the best of them, is super generous and is a fabulous mom. My sister Judy... Well, there's probably nothing you could put in front of her that she couldn't do.
My friend Robin has stuck with me persistently since we were (wait for it ... ) in junior high gym class. She's pursued me through tons of national and international moves between the two of us. She has a heart for God, and doesn't get nearly as caught up as I do in perfectionism. She really balances me out.
Stevie blows me away with her sensitivity, generosity, the way she feeds her family, and runs a business from home.
Bethany has the uncanny ability to meet me and others in grief. She makes me laugh and cries with me. She has a gift of sisterhood.
If I've left you off this list, it doesn't mean I haven't noticed your talents. I have, and do... And yes, every once in a while I wish your talents were mine.
(For those of you who possess the
Magical Power, will you please tell me, is there a pill or something I can take that will make me on time?!?!)
I think sometimes when we see others talents, we wish we had them for ourselves. (Perhaps that's just me though.)
But when I really think on it, I, for one, am glad none of us are perfect in talent.
Think of a girl who is perfect in everything she does. Sound like someone you want to be best friends with? Probably not.
And you know what? She probably would be a little lonely herself. If we knew her, we might be so intimidated we'd completely miss out on her friendship and the joy her personhood might bring.
So my challenge to all of us is this:
Affirm those talents in yourself, and affirm them in your friends. Show everyone the gift of who they are to you. And be happy with the gift you are to others.
And give others and yourself lots of grace, because in their own way, our weaknesses are gifts too.